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Wednesday, August 4, 2010

Letting Go

“We All Know That We Will Die One Day, But We Don’t Believe It Or We Would Live Differently.”
These were the words spoken by my father on the alter on the day of the memorial mass of my grandfather. He died on 20th June 2010. He had been sick for 3.5 years. When he was diagnosed with his lung disease the doctor gave him maximum two years to live.
You see my grandfather was not just a grandfather to me.. he was not a person i would see on holidays.. he was more a father to me.. he was a friend and a confidant. My parents separated when i was 6 years old ever since then my grandmother and grandfather have looked after me for most of it. My father was consumed in his work so he could give me a life i probably couldn’t even dream of and he has. 
It never ever struck me that one day I’m not going to have my grandfather. I just assumed he would always be there but then one day he wasn’t. I could never wish him for another birthday, he wouldn’t see me grow.. i could not tell him that i loved him and i couldn’t ask him for forgiveness for the times i behaved badly.
I learnt that day the value of time and how selfishly we waste it thinking there will be a tomorrow. But what if tomorrow doesn’t come? I wasted a whole day thinking about tomorrow when i could’ve spent it in a better way. But that time has gone and i don’t see the point in crying over his grave telling him i love him... I shouldve showed it to him when he was alive.
Live today like there is no tomorrow.. Cause many a times there isn’t and rather not regret the time wasted later 
:) I did not get chance to give a speech at the alter that day in memory of my grandpa but if i did it would go something like this and i’m glad i could share it with all of you today.

Saturday, July 24, 2010

In A World Where Perception Matters “BRAND INDIA” Matters.

I happened to watch a news channel that was show casing a program about Brand India. It was a panel discussion. They were discussing the various things coming in the way of the "Brand" connected with India and what we can do to improve it. I will just highlight a few points i thought very relevant and give my view on the subject.
Well the word "brand" itself holds very high regard to anyone. Which one of us can say that we would not have a wardrobe full of branded clothes/shoes/watches etc, if we had the chance. You can have a lot of fake brand clothes but when you wear the real deal it is always more prominent and holds more regard in the eyes of others. What I'm trying to say is that the brand you wear is the way people associate you. So "Brand India" is the way people around the world perceive us. therefore you can imagine how important it is.
In a world where perception matters, Brand India matters. These were the opening statement the conductor of the seminar started with. Yes, it is always in fact a matter of perception. India over the years has seen so many developments and has emerged as a runner up for the next super power, maybe even the winner. India use to be a hype before but today it is a reality.. Today we are considered a quality country, A country that is to be feared. 
However just like any other country we too have our drawbacks. The main being the slow growth of HDI (human Development Index). We are the 6th wealthiest country in terms of foreign reserves yet we have 70% of our population in poverty. We have spent just 1% of our GDP on health and Education. This sort of percentage is only seen in countries like Africa. Most developing and developed countries are at 10%. 
A very defeating factor that we are facing today is that, even though India has made progress in various fields and is a country that the whole world is looking at now, we cannot negate the fact that the average Indian is ashamed to be called an Indian. We have some serious issues with pride and patriotism. For some reason we feel derogatory being called Indian. To me personally this is quite shocking... however i do agree with it. What one must understand is that yes we do have our flaws, but which country doesn’t? We need to take pride in our country no matter how flawed it may be. If you have a problem then try and fix it. There is no point in taking a back seat and complaining about everything wrong with the country. It’s your country too... If its not up to the mark its your fault too.
Another very important point in the panel discussion was “Inclusive growth.” You might be aware of the term, if not what it means is "an equitable allocation of resources with benefits accruing to every section of society, which is a utopian concept. But the allocation of resources must be focused on the indented short and long terms benefits and economic linkages at large and not just equitable mathematically on some regional and population criteria."  We have been able to come out of the economic downturn so easily. For this we need to majorly credit the rural population. The urban population was in a bad shape- companies were facing lower profits, employees were losing jobs, the purchasing power declined etc. Here is where the government policies really helped us. The NRD’s that put money in the rural hands which fueled consumption. If you look at the FMCG’s they did not have a single downturn because they were selling in the rural areas. 
What we lack is ENFORCEMENT. we have adequate regulations but the problem is in enforcing these regulations. In fact some people may raise questions about the slow opening of our economy. It is actually a good thing, because opening up the economy means bringing into the country a new culture. Every country has their own culture. With a country like India we have so many different cultures. The country needs to be able to accept the foreign culture. In the 70’s Brazil opened its economy to the fullest and criticized India for its slow opening. The Brazilian economy has fallen 4 times in these span of years. 
India is in transition where it will go solely depends on the people of the country and each on of us.





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Saturday, April 24, 2010

Rant 1: Stuff That Bothers :)






The statement “Everybody in this world is different” can be actually really wrong. We may be different in appearance and the way we speak or where we come from. But one thing I think is unanimous in all of us: We all do things, Consciously or sub- consciously, for our benefit.

Anything we do in our lives is actually and ultimately for ourselves. Even though we may never realize it, we never think of anyone but ourselves. So does that make us conceited? Well thats a yes and no. So this is where my theme/topic comes into play.

The word “being used” is extremely looked down upon. In lay mans language it would mean something entirely “cheap.” But the fact of the matter is we all do it. Throughout our lives we either USE people or we are USED by people. Of course its better to use than to be used cause then your fate completely depends on the person using you.

Some of you may think of course not we do not do that. Ok honestly ask yourself the last time you did something just to make someone happy. Or the last time you did something without thinking of your personal gain. And HONESTLY ask yourself. But you cannot even do that because self evaluating one self is the toughest task. We ourselves never know the person we are. We are so confused with our own identity that we cannot judge ourselves therefore we adopt a different persona befitting the occasion.

We blame our lack of judgement on “peer pressure” or “work environment” or “culture.” You would not need to succumb to any kind of “pressure” if you know who you were in entirety. I have seen many people “change” when faced with different people or places. I too have changed the way I am to “suit” the occasion. The person who you think to be the most humblest and “good” person can change that persona in a blink of an eye.

Sow who is the real me then? Even i do not know. None of us know the real us. We just act “normal.” Like any of us know what normal means. Its just another over used word like sorry. Oh how i hate the word sorry. No one ever means it. EVER! They just say it to calm a situation or to completely avoid it. Actually when do we mean anything we ever say.


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Monday, April 12, 2010

I will try:

1. To blog more often than i do. Cause i have a lot of things to talk about. So yeah!
2. Not use abusive language or keep it to the minimum. I can see how that can  offend people. The thing is sometimes something just triggers a sort of spark in me to blog so I'm all fired up then and things just flow then.
3. Im goin to blog more on personal experiences.
4. I will post the same stuff on tumblr.com. Or atleast i will put the things i feel are relevant.
5. I have other Blogs as well, go to my profile and check them out.
6. Please leave any suggestions/comments after my blog.. this way i know what you guys feel. I want to make this as interactive as possible.
7. Let's share stuff cause we more or less go through the same things.
8. Ok thats it. So lets have a great time blogging!

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Wednesday, March 31, 2010

You Have A Problem With Me? Then Go Blow A Horse

 Im amazed at how hypocritical people can be. I mean really. You feel bad when people stereotype, typecast you in a pigeon hole, but you do the same thing. And i can tell you that these people are bloody losers. They have no life, so find pleasure in pulling down someone else, just so they can look good in front of their friends or whatever.

Ok so when I'm on Facebook or Twitter i see people comment on how they think people who smoke or drink are "pathetic", "losers." Who the hell made you queen of all knowing? Who are you to judge these people. Are you their God to pass judgement. They know what they are doing. they are aware of the situation. So why are you trying to pose your freaking "values" on them. Let me tell you praying everyday and fulfilling the wish of your parents or being miss goody two shoes does not make you a good person. It's how you behave with other people and your reactions when not monitored that make the person you are. Why does it bother you that people drink, smoke or do drugs. they aren't coming at your house and doing it are they? So why are your knickers in a bunch? Mind your own business and stop poking your dirty nose. Now i personally don't do any of these (drink, smoke or do drugs). And many of my friends do it, the most i can do is advice them to stop but i cannot judge them. They have their own conscience and individual thought process. Just because they don't act or think like me doesn't make them any less of a good person.

And this does not only pertain to habits but also judging someone's character. Why just cause a girl wears short or revealing clothes, you call her a sl*t or wh*re. The so-called "good" actresses also wear skimpy clothes how come you never raise a finger on them? Then it's modern and classic. What shit? And just cause two people are going out and close they are having sex? For all you know they may be related.. and not even if they are what is it to you? And just cause a girl has many guy friends she is slut? Its called being "Friends" moron.

What I'm trying to drive home is that don't judge people of what they do. you never know how the person is until you actually get to know them. Believe me some people who seem very innocent are the biggest backstabbing low lives you will ever come across. Don't pass judgement on people you don't know two squats about. Be open and not discriminate. Since you don;t like to be on the receiving end of judgement don't pass it on someone else either. Believe me I'm one of both people; those who get judged and those who judge. But I realize that its not right, How can i possibly feel bad when people make fun/pass judgement on me when i do the same when the tables are turned, thanks to one tweet by a friend.

Anyways Guys my exams are on but i have like 6 days gap for a paper.. So yah! Have a great Easter!

Friday, March 19, 2010

ODE to the Days Of LOONEY TOONS

Looney Tunes! Those were the Days

Cartoon Network was by a long stretch the BEST Kids Network when i was a kid. All my favourite shows especially Tom and Jerry, Looney Toons, The Jetsons, The Flinstones, Yogi Bear, Top Cat, Dexter's Laboratory, The Powerpuff Girls, Scooby Doo etc... They were so good. And i would specially like to bring Looney Toons into limelight here. I mean who can forget Daffy, Bugs, Tweety, Sylvester, Elmer, Martin, Porky, Taz and the whole enchilada. They were Funny not because they were great in graphics or transformed into aliens or were Ninjas... they were just funny.

Hey Arnold! Olga was the funniest.. being obsessed with "football head" 

Tommy, chucky, phil &lil, and of course Angelica!


When i just started my teen years Nickelodeon was my favourite. Like Hey! Arnold, As Told By Ginger, Rugrats, The Wild Thornberry's, Real Monsters, CatDog, Fairly Odd Parents, Chalkzone, Jimmy Neutron and Spongebob Squarepants. I loved them. In fact these were all i watched. Disney came to India awfully late and my that time there  was this HAnnah Montana garbage. I also like All That very much. Those skits were funny... not popstar- normal girl funny.


All I want to say is that those were the days when cartoons were about being funny and not about making sense. It was made for the reason cartoons were ade... that is to be fun and entertaining. All this Ben 10, Ninja Hatori, Hannah Montana... these are all stupid idiotic non fucking sense shit  thrown at our face.

And thats why i like Disney Pixar films a lot. But we really need to bring the old whacky funny and ecstatic tunes back stat... Please Bring them BAck

Ting Ting Ting.. its an UPDATE!!!!

You know the drill:

1. Exams are tomo.. yuckity yuckity yuck
2. Still trying to fathom why exams are treated like such a major task in ones life... in other words why  
    everyone is so fucking obsessed.
3. Have not study.. and trust me when i say so.... I'm not like those cheap asswipes who say that they have
    not studied and become class toppers.
4. I no longer want an iPhone i want a blackberry... dint know they come in awesome colors. Haha i know
    my criteria for choosing a phone is its COLOR. But we all know blackberry's rock. (DO what you WANT, LOVE what you Do)
5. Watched a million japanese horror films... these Japs are really good at it.
6. I really want to go to Maui... atleast once.
7. Oh yah i got SIMS 3 for my MAC.. wow i love that game.. it makes you feel like God controlling the
   life of others haha  
8. Hmmm what else? I dont remember.. exam stress you know haha joking.. But seriously i do not remember.. so ciao for now